"I just wanna be liked, just want to be funny.... looks like the jokes on me" - John Mayer Earlier this week, I was speaking with an excellent project leader who shared a familiar struggle: his team was missing targets, deadlines were slipping silently, and momentum had stalled. When I pressed him on why he wasn’t pushing harder, he said something honest, a form of which I come across often: “I could push harder, but I want to work well with the folks I’m working with. If I p

“Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people.” — Spencer Johnson Most customer escalations don’t come from the truth. They come from avoiding it. Over the years, I’ve watched teams spend weeks (sometimes months) trying to avoid one of the hardest truths in project delivery or customer service: Sometimes the customer (or a specific request they made) is not a fit. I once worked with a team trying to save a customer account. We spen